I’ve read a lot of articles on happiness, but this is something I haven’t seen elsewhere before that I’ve found to be true: you can be happy with a lot less if you have something to look forward to. That’s mostly how I get through taking tough classes or doing tedious work. No matter how bogged down I get, having something bright in the future really keeps me motivated. In some ways, that explains a few things about me – why I can put up with working on things that make me miserable as long as it doesn’t stretch on indefinitely, for example.
I started thinking about this after realizing that I had nothing to look forward to in the near future. The next two weeks look like a flat line from here: no major ups or downs. It’s interesting that I was probably happier slaving over the last OS assignment a week ago than right now, when I feel a lot less stressed.
My dad has a saying that people are either sour-grapes-first (先吃酸葡萄) or sweet-grapes-first (先吃甜葡萄), meaning that some people would rather take the good things first, and others would take the bad first. I’m usually a sour-grapes-first person, but this time it looks like I ate the sweet grapes first.
I’m sure I’ll drum up something to look forward to though. It usually comes in the form of dessert. *grin*
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Random thought: I read a book when I was little about a kid that could switch to different dimensions, but he would come back as a mirror image of himself. The molecules in him were all flipped, so he would taste everything backwards until he flipped back (it’s bad science, I know, but it was a kid’s book). Most things were absolutely horrible, but apparently ketchup was heavenly! So what I want to know is: what does ketchup taste like backwards?
This tangentially reminds me of a famous pscyh experiment, described here:
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2006/05/09/EDGFGINST41.DTL
“AROUND 1970, psychologist Walter Mischel launched a classic experiment. He left a succession of 4-year-olds in a room with a bell and a marshmallow. If they rang the bell, he would come back and they could eat the marshmallow. If, however, they didn’t ring the bell and waited for him to come back on his own, they could then have two marshmallows.”